Dear Friends in the Faith:
Some people hate them, while others despise them, many people discuss them, religious women often ridicule them, and still other sisters seek to duplicate them. They have ruined more marriages than the law will allow, they have wrecked more relationships than I have room to mention in this devotional lesson, their dress is not just sexy it is seductive, their tattoos are enticing, their walk is like watching poetry in motion, their intentions are dangerous, their motives are often hidden, their appearance is often times seen as purely innocent, their morals are loose, their values are lacking, their habits are not always holy and yet they have their place on the canvas of the pages of Holy Writ. Who are they you asked? They are bad women!
A good woman can spot her a mile away, older men are often taken swiftly by their mischief, young men get caught up in what she presents, and our culture makes millions on her body and her beauty. Who are they you asked? They are bad women! Make no mistake about it every woman is not a good woman. Some women are bad. And, the problem is that there are good men that have good women, but instead of being faithful to the good woman that they have they sometimes fall like fools for the bad woman that means them no good at all! But, why??? Why do some good men fall for bad women?
Before you leap into this thought provoking dialogue with your personal views and humble opinions let's look to the scripture for the answers that God would want us to have. You see, there is a good man in the Bible that falls for a bad woman. Here's what the scripture says, "And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. And the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and said unto her, Entice him, and see wherein his great strength lieth, and by what means we may prevail against him, that we may bind him to afflict him: and we will give thee every one of us eleven hundred pieces of silver. And Delilah said to Samson, Tell me, I pray thee, wherein thy great strength lieth, and wherewith thou mightest be bound to afflict thee. And Samson said unto her, If they bind me with seven green withs that were never dried, then shall I be weak, and be as another man. Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven green withs which had not been dried, and she bound him with them" (Judges 16:4-8, KJV). Though Delilah meant Samson absolutely no good at all, he still fell face flat for her even though she was a bad woman. And, it is my belief that the same reason why he fell for his bad woman is the exact same reason why men fall for bad women today. So what makes a good man fall for a bad woman?
First of all, she knows how to handle him. Okay this may seem harsh but it is true none-the-less. Most good women need courses on "man handling." Get this, if a man is a real man (and he is not gay, weak, or sorry) you cannot handle him just any kind of way. Here's a secret that all good women can learn from bad ones. Always handle a man like he's a man. By this I mean, God gave men position and He gave women influence. Use your influence to get what you want from him and let him keep his position. In short, give him what all men must have
R-E-S-P-E-C-T and when you give him what he needs you will always get what you want. If you don't think that this works look at Delilah! She was a bad woman that got what she wanted from Samson by simply handling him like a man!
Secondly, she knows how to talk to him. Now this is going to get me into trouble, but at the risk of being honest, truthful, godly and helpful I am going to say it. If a man is a real man (and he is not lazy, stupid and shallow) you cannot talk to him just any kind of a way. Bad women know how to talk to a man. Here's a huge secret that all good sisters need to know, screaming and yelling makes him change stations and switch satellites! But, if you know how to say, "Baby....listen....I need something from you....", you will get it every single time! I know, we have been taught that Diva's put their hands on their hips, roll their necks and get a brother told right? But, that's why most Diva's don't have a descent dude. Please get this and hold on to it forever, if you know how to talk to a man you can have it all! His mind, his body, his soul, his money, his heart and his resources. If you can't talk to him right there is a bad woman that will!
Thirdly, she knows how to use her femininity to her advantage. Since I am already in hot water I may as well say one more thing before this devotional is over. If a man is a real man (and he is not on the down low, not foggy in his sexuality and stable in God his given manhood) he loves every facet of a real woman. He loves her hips, her hands, her legs, her chest, her neck, her eyes, and her feet. So what am I saying here? I am saying that bad women know how to wear it and present it. All too often good women do what it takes to get a good man. But, once they have him they swap every good habit for a bad one. In short, if it is ashy grab some lotion. If it is nappy, dread it or perm it. If it is tacky fix it up. If it is rough smooth it out. If it is doesn't fit don't wear it. And, if it is not your best feature camouflage it! Please here this, in a real man's mind there is no greater creation on the planet other than true womanhood. So be a woman and be a beautiful one!
For every sister reading this devotional that has a good man use these principles to keep him right where he is and know that the only way for you to be the queen is for you to crown him king! And, for every sister that is single that wants a good man remember this, you don't have to be bad woman to get a good man, but there are some good habits that you can learn from bad women that can help you be the best you that you can be! Use these habits and let the Lord do everything else!
Your Friend and His Servant,
Dr. John R. Adolph
Some people hate them, while others despise them, many people discuss them, religious women often ridicule them, and still other sisters seek to duplicate them. They have ruined more marriages than the law will allow, they have wrecked more relationships than I have room to mention in this devotional lesson, their dress is not just sexy it is seductive, their tattoos are enticing, their walk is like watching poetry in motion, their intentions are dangerous, their motives are often hidden, their appearance is often times seen as purely innocent, their morals are loose, their values are lacking, their habits are not always holy and yet they have their place on the canvas of the pages of Holy Writ. Who are they you asked? They are bad women!
A good woman can spot her a mile away, older men are often taken swiftly by their mischief, young men get caught up in what she presents, and our culture makes millions on her body and her beauty. Who are they you asked? They are bad women! Make no mistake about it every woman is not a good woman. Some women are bad. And, the problem is that there are good men that have good women, but instead of being faithful to the good woman that they have they sometimes fall like fools for the bad woman that means them no good at all! But, why??? Why do some good men fall for bad women?
Before you leap into this thought provoking dialogue with your personal views and humble opinions let's look to the scripture for the answers that God would want us to have. You see, there is a good man in the Bible that falls for a bad woman. Here's what the scripture says, "And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. And the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and said unto her, Entice him, and see wherein his great strength lieth, and by what means we may prevail against him, that we may bind him to afflict him: and we will give thee every one of us eleven hundred pieces of silver. And Delilah said to Samson, Tell me, I pray thee, wherein thy great strength lieth, and wherewith thou mightest be bound to afflict thee. And Samson said unto her, If they bind me with seven green withs that were never dried, then shall I be weak, and be as another man. Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven green withs which had not been dried, and she bound him with them" (Judges 16:4-8, KJV). Though Delilah meant Samson absolutely no good at all, he still fell face flat for her even though she was a bad woman. And, it is my belief that the same reason why he fell for his bad woman is the exact same reason why men fall for bad women today. So what makes a good man fall for a bad woman?
First of all, she knows how to handle him. Okay this may seem harsh but it is true none-the-less. Most good women need courses on "man handling." Get this, if a man is a real man (and he is not gay, weak, or sorry) you cannot handle him just any kind of way. Here's a secret that all good women can learn from bad ones. Always handle a man like he's a man. By this I mean, God gave men position and He gave women influence. Use your influence to get what you want from him and let him keep his position. In short, give him what all men must have
R-E-S-P-E-C-T and when you give him what he needs you will always get what you want. If you don't think that this works look at Delilah! She was a bad woman that got what she wanted from Samson by simply handling him like a man!
Secondly, she knows how to talk to him. Now this is going to get me into trouble, but at the risk of being honest, truthful, godly and helpful I am going to say it. If a man is a real man (and he is not lazy, stupid and shallow) you cannot talk to him just any kind of a way. Bad women know how to talk to a man. Here's a huge secret that all good sisters need to know, screaming and yelling makes him change stations and switch satellites! But, if you know how to say, "Baby....listen....I need something from you....", you will get it every single time! I know, we have been taught that Diva's put their hands on their hips, roll their necks and get a brother told right? But, that's why most Diva's don't have a descent dude. Please get this and hold on to it forever, if you know how to talk to a man you can have it all! His mind, his body, his soul, his money, his heart and his resources. If you can't talk to him right there is a bad woman that will!
Thirdly, she knows how to use her femininity to her advantage. Since I am already in hot water I may as well say one more thing before this devotional is over. If a man is a real man (and he is not on the down low, not foggy in his sexuality and stable in God his given manhood) he loves every facet of a real woman. He loves her hips, her hands, her legs, her chest, her neck, her eyes, and her feet. So what am I saying here? I am saying that bad women know how to wear it and present it. All too often good women do what it takes to get a good man. But, once they have him they swap every good habit for a bad one. In short, if it is ashy grab some lotion. If it is nappy, dread it or perm it. If it is tacky fix it up. If it is rough smooth it out. If it is doesn't fit don't wear it. And, if it is not your best feature camouflage it! Please here this, in a real man's mind there is no greater creation on the planet other than true womanhood. So be a woman and be a beautiful one!
For every sister reading this devotional that has a good man use these principles to keep him right where he is and know that the only way for you to be the queen is for you to crown him king! And, for every sister that is single that wants a good man remember this, you don't have to be bad woman to get a good man, but there are some good habits that you can learn from bad women that can help you be the best you that you can be! Use these habits and let the Lord do everything else!
Your Friend and His Servant,
Dr. John R. Adolph
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